Sunday, October 19, 2008

Questions To Ask In The Beginning

So I'm getting to know someone new. Well hes not really new its more that i'm getting to know someone again after 15 years. So he might as well be new. And of course we don't live anywhere near each other anymore so we are reacquainting ourselves online. I swore I'd never do this again but I've rationalized that its different because I used to know him. Whatever.

Anyways the conversation is good we can "talk" online for till our fingers ache from hitting the keyboard. But I want to start asking the important questions. I've asked a few already but figured I would start compiling a list and if anyone has any ideas of things I should be asking let me know!

These are in no particular order of importance and are definitely not all meant to be asked in one sitting :)

  1. Do you want kids?
  2. Do you like &/or have pets?
  3. Do you smoke? If so will you keep it outside?
  4. Do you do drugs?
  5. Do you drink? If so how much/often?
  6. Any criminal background?
  7. Have you ever cheated in a relationship?
  8. Have you ever had an STD?
  9. Do you get checked for STD's?
  10. Are you an affectionate person?
  11. In past relationships on average who wanted more sex? You or your exes?
  12. Have you ever been in a fist fight?
  13. Have you ever been in a physical altercation with an ex?
  14. How do you spend your days off?
  15. Where would you love to travel?
  16. Best vacation ever?
  17. Last book you read?
  18. Last movie you saw?
  19. Favorite Book/Movie?
  20. Favorite foods?
  21. What do you hate?
  22. What are you passionate about?
  23. What is your relationship with your family like?
  24. Have you ever cheated on an ex?
  25. What do your friends think of you talking to me online?
  26. Do you/Have you played games in past relationships? T/F : All is fair in love and war
  27. What do you day dream of?
  28. Goals for the future? where do you see yourself in 5/10/20 years?
  29. Do you watch TV? If so which and how much?
  30. Do you watch sports? If so which and how much?
  31. Are you religious or spiritual?
  32. What do you think makes a good relationship?
  33. What are your worst traits in your opinion?
  34. What are you looking for?
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3 comments:

  1. OddiferousOctober 20, 2008 at 4:41 AM

    That list is great! As one married to someone I reconnected wtih long-distance after many years, I can tell you that your list is smart as well.

    I asked many of the same questions with some strange only suited to me ones but I left some out, some that you have on your list. Things exist that you absolutely can't know until you live with a person, but I would have liked to have been more prepared for some of his weirdnesses!! (I still do like him an awful lot anyway)

    Good luck!

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  2. CadiOctober 20, 2008 at 2:30 PM

    The toilet seat! You forgot about *that*! :-)

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  3. CadiNovember 17, 2008 at 7:29 AM

    I gave you an award. Check my blog for details.

    Love & Light,
    Cadi

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